Archive for the ‘General’ Category.

Apple Pay vs Google Wallet vs Tap to Pay

Yesterday I was out with the family at a restaurant and when it came time to pay, the server asked if I wanted to pay “with Apple Pay”. I was just a tiny bit bothered since I use Google Wallet. I asked “why didn’t you call it “Tap to Pay” or something?” What he said surprised me!

“In a day, I might have 50 people tap and 49 of them will use an iPhone!”

Wow, I had no idea! I thought the split was in the realm of 50-50 iPhone vs Android users!

I did some googling and browsing Reddit threads and there’s no consistency to who uses what, so I’ll assume that it really is a fairly even split but there are geographic and social pockets of each system. Weird!

Done with Social Media as a Social Medium

I invited 12 friends to that Tiger Trials thing, after stressing and failing to invite 2 families (which is how many spaces there are), and then failing to get any takers at all after posting on Facebook, a local Facebook school group, Mastadon, and my blog. I included this important message in my invite:

I’m tired of social media not helping to create community, but instead creating a feeling of isolation. So I’m going to try emailing more often. I hope it’s a welcome shift. Telephone and texting are still welcome, but email seems like the right middle-ground to invite a group of friends to an event where there is less of an expectation to attend. That said, feel free to not respond to this email! I might check in with you if it seems you didn’t get my message, they sometimes fall into spam holes!

Tiger Trials in Berkeley

I heard about Tiger Trials on Berkeley Family Friends Facebook Group. It’s an Amazing Race-like challenge happening near the Berkeley Marina on March 23rd 9am-1pm. It’s a fundraiser for Longfellow Middle School, but more importantly, it’s being written by a writer for the TV show Survivor, and sounds like a blast. Would you like to form a team with my family?  https://runsignup.com/Race/CA/Berkeley/TigerTrials

 

My Favorite Meme

Here is my favorite late-night meme.

I love love love that there are many variants of this, the “shooting star meme” on Imgur. I insist that the best ones all involve the somersaulting guy and that music track, cruising around the universe. I’m going to try and collect them :-)

 

Rodney Dangerfield shooting star meme!

5-1-25 update:
Lou Farigno Hercules Shooting Star meme!

The Packard and My Dad

(Veuillez voir ci-dessous une traduction automatique de ce message en français.)

A letter to the new owner of the Packard

Ms. Charbonneau,

Some 12 years ago you received a gift that had been beloved in our family for some 26 years. I went with my dad to pick up the Packard from a guy who was selling it in Pennsylvania in 1986. It was originally black, but it received a magnificent and factory-standard Packard cream paint job. I waited with him over several months to find and re-chrome the letters on the front and side. I watched the car come together over a few years. Once the car was perfect, he loved to take it out and just drive it wherever. He would even laugh, enjoying the thrill of trying to stop that giant hunk of metal with those original-style drum brakes!

After more than 25 years of caring for it, he was, of course melancholy at selling the Packard. But it was time. He had fewer opportunities to take it out because he and my mom, Marlene split their time between New Jersey and Florida. And even when he was in New Jersey, where the car was garaged, the car only came out on special occasions. And there was the nuisance that he was about to lose the garage due to some upcoming HOA rules changes.

He loved that car!

The “desktop” image on his computer for some ten years was of me, my sister, and his granddaughter washing the car in our driveway on a summer day. I’d ask him every now and then if he wanted to update the photo and he’d laugh, pause a moment and say, “Nah! Leave it there. I like it!”

I don’t know you at all but I heard that the ’51 Packard had been your dream car for a very long time. I’m glad, and my dad was glad that you appreciated the car.

I’m writing to tell you that my dad passed away last April. I don’t know what that might even mean to you but I thought you should know.

I’d appreciate a brief message back confirming this message found its destination. Thank you.

Best regards,
Lee C. Sonko

 


Lettre au nouveau propriétaire de la Packard

Madame Charbonneau,

Il y a une douzaine d’années, vous avez reçu un cadeau que notre famille chérissait depuis 26 ans. J’ai accompagné mon père pour récupérer la Packard chez un vendeur en Pennsylvanie en 1986. Elle était noire à l’origine, mais elle a été refaite avec une magnifique peinture crème Packard standard. J’ai attendu avec lui pendant plusieurs mois pour retrouver et rechromer les lettres à l’avant et sur les côtés. J’ai vu la voiture prendre forme pendant quelques années. Une fois parfaite, il adorait la sortir et la conduire partout. Il riait même, savourant le frisson d’essayer d’arrêter cet énorme morceau de métal avec ces freins à tambour d’origine !

Après plus de 25 ans d’entretien, il était bien sûr mélancolique à l’idée de vendre la Packard. Mais le moment était venu. Il avait moins d’occasions de la sortir, car lui et ma mère, Marlene, partageaient leur temps entre le New Jersey et la Floride. Et même lorsqu’il était dans le New Jersey, où la voiture était garée, elle ne sortait que pour les grandes occasions. Et il y avait le désagrément qu’il allait perdre le garage à cause de changements imminents au règlement de l’association des propriétaires.

Il adorait cette voiture !

L’image « bureau » sur son ordinateur pendant une dizaine d’années était celle de moi, ma sœur et sa petite-fille en train de laver la voiture dans notre allée un jour d’été. Je lui demandais de temps en temps s’il voulait mettre à jour la photo et il riait, marquait une pause et disait : « Non ! Laisse-la là. Je l’aime bien !»

Je ne te connais pas du tout, mais j’ai entendu dire que la Packard 51 était la voiture de tes rêves depuis très longtemps. J’en suis ravi, et mon père était ravi que tu aies apprécié la voiture.

Je t’écris pour t’annoncer le décès de mon père en avril dernier. Je ne sais pas ce que cela signifie pour toi, mais je pensais que tu devais le savoir.

J’apprécierais un bref message confirmant que ce message est bien arrivé à destination. Merci.

Cordialement,
Lee C. Sonko

RFK Measles Vitamin A

Is it concerning that RFK has started recommending Vitamin A for the measles?
The CDC Measles page on December 26th didn’t mention Vitamin A but today’s page does.

The key question is: does Vitamin A help fight Measles? Yeah, it helps, according to this study.

I wanted to call RFK koo-koo crazypants, but the recommendation isn’t without some merit.

I had to do some refresher into what RR and CI (relative risk and confidence intervals) mean. But if the that Cochrane study is legit, then the recommendation is fairly legit. Of course, if the immunization is safer and effectiver than vitamin A therapy, one should start with that (ie. immunize your kids!!!! Yes, the vaccine is an order of magnitude more safe and effective than going commando!!!!!). But Vitamin A treatment isn’t a K-K-CP recommendation.

Trump Politicking with Zelensky

Why did the Trump-Zelensky meeting turn on its head so quickly? I watched the meeting very carefully and here’s what I think the conversation was between Trump and JD was earlier that day.

“JD, when I say ‘All right, one more question’ we’re going to work together to throw the whole deal. He’ll go back to Europe and all the European countries will say, ‘Oh you didn’t deserve that treatment, we’ll support you and give you money’. And then, eventually we’ll get back in because, I mean, we really do want to hold the line with Russia at this buffer country. But by doing it this way, Putin thinks he has a chance with me and Europe is convinced to put in more money to hold Russia, saving us billions of dollars. And my reputation as a capricious deal maker is maintained.”

Here’s the moment the conversation turns:

The tell for me is that the discussion was going so swimmingly well for most of the meeting. When Zelensky says, “You have nice oceans and don’t feel now but you will feel it in the future.” got Trump very agitated. But that was a call-back from just 10 minutes earlier and wasn’t seen as inflammatory then.

Wildflower Season / Gopher Season

My wildflower garden (previously) is starting to come up! Yay!

The gophers made their first pass this week. Boo!

Defense engaged!

 

Bluesky

You can now also find me on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/gadlen.bsky.social . Facebook and https://lee.org are still my primary social media, but that is shifting.

I figured out a reasonable way to find my Facebook friends on Bluesky: Each friend hopefully posted a message like I did. So when I do a Facebook search for “bsky.app/profile” and then limit that search to Posts made by Friends, it should find all of my friends switching.

Obituary of Irene R. Sonko 1912-2014

My grandmother passed away 11 years ago. Her funeral was at Moore’s Home for Funerals in Wayne NJ. The home has closed its doors so I am reposting her obituary here.


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In Memory of Irene R. Sonko 1912-2014

Obituary of Irene R. Sonko
Irene R. (Polachek) Sonko, age 102, went home to be with the Lord on Saturday, December 6, 2014. Mrs. Sonko was born December 3, 1912 in Hungary, the daughter of the late Joseph and the late Elizabeth Polachek. She lived in Lincoln Park. She was employed as a Factory Worker for many years before retiring. Mrs. Sonko was a member of St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, Lincoln Park.

Beloved wife of the late Lee Sonko, Devoted mother of Rita Temes, Lee and his wife Marlene Sonko and the late Marcia Sonko, Loving sister of Helen Yobbagy, Devoted grandmother of Wendy and her husband Justin Sabino, Craig and his wife Soraida Temes, Bart Temes, Melissa Sonko and Lee Sonko, Jr., Great grandmother of Alexa, Arianna, Craig, Michael, Jenelle, Julia and Tiffany and Dear aunt of Pat & Barbara.

Visiting hours will be Wednesday from 6-9 p.m.

The funeral Mass will be Thursday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, Lincoln Park and will be celebrated by Father Thomas Mangieri.

Interment will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, Totowa.

Memorials may be made to St. Joseph’s R.C. Church, 216 Comly Road, Lincoln Park, NJ 07035