Archive for March 2025

On Being Lucky

Sometimes I think about how lucky I am.

In 2007, I was there at Burning Man as The Man was burned early by a prankster, Paul Addis.

In 2010, I got to meet the man who did it. You may be able to tell in those photos that I appreciated this particular man’s free spirit, showing up to an event, years later, wearing face paint idolizing him!

In 2012, he jumped in front of a subway train. Not so merry, after-all.

 

 

The San Francisco Chronicle wrote about Paul Addis after his passing:

Addis served nearly two years in prison in Nevada after the August 2007 stunt in Black Rock Desert in which he set the 40-foot-tall man-statue ablaze ahead of schedule. He told The Chronicle after his arrest on arson and other charges that Burning Man had become too suburban and needed spontaneity.

“This was not an act of vengeance, it was one of love,” Addis said. “A love of the ethos that is fading at Burning Man. There’s no sense of spontaneity. No sense of ‘F- it. Let’s burn this down.’ “

The Crew: The Quest for Planet Nine

Tonight at Juku’s monthly gaming night, I played The Crew: The Quest for Planet Nine, a rather fun trick-taking game!

Moreso, Abigail came and really enjoyed playing with the other kids there!

It was a win of a night!

Letter to Unilever and Ben and Jerry’s Ice Cream about their Social Mission

I sent this letter to Unilever today on their website.

I hear that Unilever recently fired the CEO of Ben and Jerry’s due to social mission disagreements and has blocked many of the social mission outreaches that the Ben and Jerry’s Independent Board has approved of.

When you bought Ben and Jerry’s in 2000, you bought their social mission too. It is in the contract.

If you abandon Ben and Jerry’s social mission, I will stop purchasing your product and strongly suggest to my friends the same. Please uphold your end the agreement.

A response would be appreciated. Thank you,
Lee Sonko

Reference: https://www.washingtonpost.com/business/2025/03/19/ben-jerrys-ceo-unilever/

Apple Pay vs Google Wallet vs Tap to Pay

Yesterday I was out with the family at a restaurant and when it came time to pay, the server asked if I wanted to pay “with Apple Pay”. I was just a tiny bit bothered since I use Google Wallet. I asked “why didn’t you call it “Tap to Pay” or something?” What he said surprised me!

“In a day, I might have 50 people tap and 49 of them will use an iPhone!”

Wow, I had no idea! I thought the split was in the realm of 50-50 iPhone vs Android users!

I did some googling and browsing Reddit threads and there’s no consistency to who uses what, so I’ll assume that it really is a fairly even split but there are geographic and social pockets of each system. Weird!

Done with Social Media as a Social Medium

I invited 12 friends to that Tiger Trials thing, after stressing and failing to invite 2 families (which is how many spaces there are), and then failing to get any takers at all after posting on Facebook, a local Facebook school group, Mastadon, and my blog. I included this important message in my invite:

I’m tired of social media not helping to create community, but instead creating a feeling of isolation. So I’m going to try emailing more often. I hope it’s a welcome shift. Telephone and texting are still welcome, but email seems like the right middle-ground to invite a group of friends to an event where there is less of an expectation to attend. That said, feel free to not respond to this email! I might check in with you if it seems you didn’t get my message, they sometimes fall into spam holes!

Played Terraforming Mars: The Dice Game

At Monday gaming I played Terraforming Mars: The Dice Game for the first time. It felt like I was almost entirely playing my own game of building and only occasionally interacting with the other players. The cards and dice and such are fun, with nice quality images and such. It felt like there was a bit of slightly clunky artifice built into the game, scoring points for various things, but still it was fun learning the game. And it was certainly fun playing with friends.

 

 

Tiger Trials in Berkeley

I heard about Tiger Trials on Berkeley Family Friends Facebook Group. It’s an Amazing Race-like challenge happening near the Berkeley Marina on March 23rd 9am-1pm. It’s a fundraiser for Longfellow Middle School, but more importantly, it’s being written by a writer for the TV show Survivor, and sounds like a blast. Would you like to form a team with my family?  https://runsignup.com/Race/CA/Berkeley/TigerTrials

 

Good Honda Dealership Auto Service

I just yesterday went to my local (El Cerrito) Honda dealer for 4 tires (they were worn, at 2/32″, and one had a slow leak), alignment, and oil change. $1325. I’m very happy with the service and price. I’ll return. I’m happily surprised that “the dealer” had a competitive price, and still offered “dealer” service! I had multiple “Ok, I guess.” experiences at Adams Autoworx in El Cerrito.

An important part of the experience is feeling like the service manager is “on your side”. I didn’t feel like Ronnie at Adams was my ally, but Guillermo at the dealership has got my back!

 

My Favorite Meme

Here is my favorite late-night meme.

I love love love that there are many variants of this, the “shooting star meme” on Imgur. I insist that the best ones all involve the somersaulting guy and that music track, cruising around the universe. I’m going to try and collect them :-)

 

Rodney Dangerfield shooting star meme!

5-1-25 update:
Lou Farigno Hercules Shooting Star meme!

RFK Measles Vitamin A

Is it concerning that RFK has started recommending Vitamin A for the measles?
The CDC Measles page on December 26th didn’t mention Vitamin A but today’s page does.

The key question is: does Vitamin A help fight Measles? Yeah, it helps, according to this study.

I wanted to call RFK koo-koo crazypants, but the recommendation isn’t without some merit.

I had to do some refresher into what RR and CI (relative risk and confidence intervals) mean. But if the that Cochrane study is legit, then the recommendation is fairly legit. Of course, if the immunization is safer and effectiver than vitamin A therapy, one should start with that (ie. immunize your kids!!!! Yes, the vaccine is an order of magnitude more safe and effective than going commando!!!!!). But Vitamin A treatment isn’t a K-K-CP recommendation.