{"id":10201,"date":"2023-10-23T09:11:16","date_gmt":"2023-10-23T16:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/?p=10201"},"modified":"2023-09-23T09:35:14","modified_gmt":"2023-09-23T16:35:14","slug":"matchmaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/2023\/10\/23\/matchmaking\/","title":{"rendered":"Matchmaking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A guy on Facebook asked a group for matchmaking advice. My response:<\/p>\n<p>12 years ago I met my now-wife on match.com. I found OKCupid, PlentyOfFish, and a few other free sites to be full of women window-shopping for men which was horrid. I found other good relationships on Match.com years before also. I don&#8217;t know what the best sites are now but going with a paid site was better. A zillion years ago I used the Together Matchmaking service and didn&#8217;t like it. &#8220;5 matches for $750. Go!&#8221; The pressure to match was very uncomfortable! It all sucks. Good luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A guy on Facebook asked a group for matchmaking advice. My response: 12 years ago I met my now-wife on match.com. I found OKCupid, PlentyOfFish, and a few other free sites to be full of women window-shopping for men which was horrid. I found other good relationships on Match.com years before also. I don&#8217;t know [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10201","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10201","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10201"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10201\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10202,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10201\/revisions\/10202"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10201"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10201"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lee.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10201"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}